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Dear Bitter Single Guy: I live with my boyfriend of 3 years, but our relationship (and sex life) has pretty much died. Meanwhile, I'm totally in lust with my cube mate at work - who is getting divorced for the 2nd time. I know he would have a sexual relationship with me, we have talked about that, but I can see us going so much farther after his divorce! (And if I break up with my boyfriend) I would like to stop thinking about my work friend and move on but I can't, help! - Lust Crazed But Committed

Dear LCBC: First of all it's time for a quick lesson in Dudes 101. Captivating Cube-Mate is on his second divorce, and is willing to have a sexual relationship with you, eh? No kidding, LCBC. Any man able to draw breath would have a quickie with his cube-mate if the opportunity arose and that's even without the self-esteem boost of a couple of divorces. LCBC, have you considered the ramifications of adding another notch to your bedpost while your boyfriend is at home thinking that all is well in Relationship Land?

LCBC the BSG thinks you need to reel in your lusty lure and step away, yes just step away from Captivating Cube-Mate. The BSG has said it before and believes it needs to be said now: If you're unhappy in your relationship fix it or get out. Don't use the excuse of your wandering eye (or wandering whatever…the BSG doesn't even want to think about it) to weasel your way out of a commitment. Oh, and don't fall for Captivating Cube-Mate's wiles…there's only heartache there, trust the BSG on this one.